The reason why i'm not married till now is because I've yet to find a man that I can trust with all my heart and my life for my dad to hand over my key to Jannah to him.
My dad is the most trustworthy, non judgemental, loving and caring towards me with absolute no hesitation. A man who will always be there for me no matter what. Someone who have 100% trust that his well being will be taken care by Allah and quit his job just to take care of my mom because she needs assistance round the clock. He don't trust no one to take care of her but himself. But the time frame for him to take care of her was only 3 months. Quitting his job was never a regret to him but he was so grateful to be able to fully take care of her till her last breath.
Will I find a man exactly like him? Possible if Allah permits it to be. But I do understand that everyone is different.
My parents always says that never find a man who is wealthy but find someone who is soothing to the heart. As long as the man is a kind hearted and God fearing kind of man, that'll guarantee my life from earth to hereafter.
If Allah permits me to choose my future husband, I'll want him to be....
Someone who loves Allah not just by words but by actions...
Someone who honesty is crystal clear...
Someone who is hardworking in every aspect...
Someone who is romantic...
The most important part.....
Someone who constantly holding my hands walking on the road to Jannah.
Someone who don't mind me reminding him when he slipped away from the right path...
Someone who will not hesitate to straighten me up when I'm out of line away from Allah...
I'm in love with my parents love. I hope to find someone who will love me the same way.
The same warmth of love when he first set his eyes on me and when the last day he send me on my way to Allah.
Love from Duniya to Jannah.
May Allah make it easy for you & me to find what we seek.
Amin.