Being detached from love ones is not something any human wants to purposely do to themselves. Sometimes, we just feel that our existence is just better invisible from the vision of others letting others to roam and breathe in this world better without having any interruptions by us.
Everyone wants to be love by someone.
Everyone wants to be part of someone's life journey.
No one in this world ever one bit in their life inspire to be living and roaming this earth alone. Just that sometimes it's the best thing to do.
Being judged in the midst of it is such an easy reflex from anyone that exist around it without really trying to jump in to be able to see a better picture of it.
It's really hurtful and feels there's a big void in the heart when it happens.
We tends to judge people at some point of our life without trying to see it in a different perspective. Being surrounded by positive people and people who elevate your heart is the most important part of the plan to live life well on earth. Without these elements, we will be miserable and will fall flat down to the ground in no time.
No one will help you to pick your spirit up to move on and even run in life. But if you choose the right human to be surrounded with, they will hand you a 'torch light' for you to light up your path and see a clearer ground to walk on and not bumping around in life aimlessly.
The hardest critics in our life are our own family. I'm not talking about extended family. I'm talking about parents and siblings. If you are lucky enough, these particular people will help to pick you up. But if not, you'll fall flat and might not ever get up well to move on in life till you bump into someone who can elevate your soul up.
Nothing in life comes for free.
Humans are traders since birth.
Babies trade their cuteness for warmth from the human around them to take care of them.
As we grow older, we trade our school grades with our parents to reward us with praises and compliments. For some fortunate kids, they trade their school grades with gifts.
Once we are done with the education system, we will all have to go out in the real world to do real big trading.
That is...
Certificate -----> Job
This is the part we have to survive on our own. We learn to make small talks and built alliance with people who can be our 'stepping stone' to achieve the next level.
Next level of trading.....
Words -----> Opportunities
The level of trading intensity get higher as we gets deeper into 'the jungle of life'.
We will meet human from all walks of life. This is where the journey of detachments starts when people starts to hurt you, betray you, mistreated you when you are genuinely sincere and truthful in your moves with them.
Hard truth! But that's the truth. It's all depends on how much bullshit you are willing to take in along the way to keep up with the human around you and for some is to keep those human still in their life. Absorbing every single shitty behavior that they throw along the way.
No one ever stop being a trader till the last of our breath on earth.
Trade wisely. May you find what you seek in life.