I'm one of those people who used to think that the phrase above is so cheesy that it feels so unreal to me.
But now I know better that cheesy things are real true feelings of someone who truly wants to shower lots of love to another person.
Loving yourself is not as easy as just verbally saying it without having the true real feelings deep down in your heart.
Who exactly deserves your unconditional love?
Who exactly deserves your misery?
Who exactly deserves every drop of tears when you are hurt by them?
Who exactly deserves your shoulder to cry on?
Who exactly deserves your precious time?
Time is the one thing that we can never ever get back. Once it passes by us, it's gone forever. We make new memories from this second forward.
Best to live life is to live in the present and not in the past or in the future.
At this very second, I missed my mom terribly. Even my dad is still around, I don't know for some reason he will be 'invited' too.....soon. How soon? I don't even know. I hope Allah makes it easy for him to travel from earth to the hereafter.
For me, loving someone other than my parents is easy to be wiped off. I can move on easily without any emotional setbacks.
My father is the best man that I've ever come across in my entire life. I love the way he love my mom. Imagine loving till the last breath. That's something that not everyone can achieve. But my parents are the very many couple in the world that achieved it.
Having this man figure in my life, sets a really high standard in my soul mate. I am always giving and I'm not into snooping or interrogating my partner. Where he go, look through his phone and things like that.
When I love, I trust 100% without the slightest doubt. Is it a mistake to do that? Some people have said to me that we must keep a lil bit of suspicion in our heart for our partner so that we are not bumping around in marriage aimlessly.
Maybe they are right. But this is how I see it.
If I have to snoop around, feeling suspicious in my heart, it's the indication that I need to start letting go of this love slowly. Not because I don't love him enough. But because I love him too much that I want him to be happy wherever he go, whatever he do and whoever he's with.
I want to be the one who make it easy for him to achieve what he wants and fell happy with the people he's surrounded with. If those people doesn't include me, I'll move away. I'll smile from far and hoping that he will be happier than he ever be.
Letting go of the man or woman that we love is not a sign of stupidity or losing.
But a sign of selflessness.
A sign of unconditional love.
When your heart and mind only beats to give the best to him or her. But the best that you have given is not the same standard as expected by him or her, it's time to let go.
We can't erase the past or the memories that we have built together. But we can change that unpleasant feelings of letting go by focusing on our own path journey to happiness instead of blaming each other.
If everyone can do that, even if down the road we meet the person from our past and bring us back to the memory lane, we can still smile. Just because we know in our heart, we let go to make each other happier.
Moving on comes in a package of tears and sadness. But at the same time, we are glad we are given a chance to see that we can make the situation better by walking away from it and not be in it and live in misery.
May we find unconditional true love in a person that is sent to us.
Nothing in this world is coincidence. Everyone is connected by the vibration of their souls.
Sending much love to the universe and may it manifest into many beautiful emotions.