Every single ticking second we are busy chasing after time. Time is just a guideline of a collective of numbers that haunts us everytime in everything in life.
Have you ever try to slow down and have a look around at what 'actually' is happening around you. When I say look around i'm not implying that you weren't looking. But you were paying less attention to something and someone that's really needs our attention.
Someone who needs their heart waiting for you to nourish them with care, concern and love. You were so busy rushing through time that you forgotten the element of slowdown.
Time is just a guideline so as to know what is to be done at certain given time. But is it necessary to follow the schedule through and through? NO! We can be flexible about it. We can change it anytime.
But then some people says that 'hey I need to work to sustain the family. I don't have the luxury of time to be spending much with my family.'
Honestly, are you listening to what you are saying right now? The word is FAMILY. Those words are combinations of people that is in it not statues that are living around you.
The people that's around you who are waiting for you to nourish their heart with love might not be there forever. You will never know when they 'check out' of your life even though they are living in the same house as you. Feeling like they are only a slave to you. A never ending waiting.
Time is all we've got to sustain that bond. Don't give it or some 'sell' time to the wrong person and the wrong activities.
How to know when it's right?
How to know that what you are doing is right?
The heart...
The heart never fails no one. Feel it. When you are feeling euphoric, calm, sooth and guilt free is when you know you are doing something right. No one can help you feel your heart other than you.
The heart is constantly beating the sound of truth. Listen closely to it.
How many times a day have we taken for granted the people that we called 'love ones'? Thinking that they are there and will love us unconditionally without resentment, judgement or expectations.?
Don't forget. They are merely humans. People have the potential to change every single second. A change of heart is always a possible thing to happen.
Before it's too late, take time to look into their eyes and say 'thank you' and 'I love you' to them.
Time waits for no one. There's always a risk of losing time to the things that don't really matter in life where we should be spending time with those that matters most.
If you are a single person like me, talk to yourself. Yes! You hear it right! I do talk to myself. Something that most people think it's an act of insanity but that is the most sane thing that a person can do to themselves.
Look at the reflection of you in the mirror and say thank you to yourself for existing in this earth and doing the very best for you for the day. Look at your eyes, your hair, your teeth, your nose, your hands and be thankful for all the 'gift' that is given to you. There's endless to the gratefulness list.
Do you think anyone wants to give you anything more if the last gift that was given to you were to being appreciated and no gesture of appreciation from you? Definitely no!
But then that's not the same for our creator. He give us whatever we asked for on his time and on his own term. But everything is given in ways that you'll never expected. But it was given or will be given.
Don't be grumpy if things don't goes your way. Be grateful. What if it does goes your way, do you think everything will be awesome as what you've envisioned in your human mind? Probably not.
The creator or universe or whatever you believe in, knows best. It happens to the wave of your thoughts not your words.
How about start your day today by saying thank you for the oxygen you breath. That's first step to the more coming gratitude.
There's so much things to be grateful and thankful for. Don't procrastinate on that act. Start it today.