Whatever our mother says, we listen to it.
Whatever she eats, we eat.
Whatever music she listens to, we listen to it too.
Whatever she feels we feel the same too.
Our mind start developing not just from cradle but from womb world.
Our mother is our bestfriend.
We wants to be with her so much.
Our father is our hero.
We wants to be like them.
In our young eyes, they are everything.
But that fades away as we roam around and explore the wondrous world.
Forgetting...
Who is our first love
Who is our first bestfriend
Who is there ready to die and sacrifice everything for us.
The once was a powerful and strong bond fades away and evaporated into thin air. We glorify our friends and other people that don't matter. We put our parents down infront of our friends and even strangers. We are so embarrased to walk along side our parents.
We are embarrased of the existance of our parents infront of our friends. Bearing in mind that it's not cool to have parents being there with us.
Forgetting that the existence of our parents is the coolest thing that every happened to us. Without them, we'll probably die because they can have the choice to abort us from fetus but they choose to have us instead!
Labelling us the bundle of their joy. The apple of their eyes. No friends of yours will feel the same way towards you like that. No one!
Once was the proud feelings that we wants to hold our parents hands all the time and hug them all the time are all gone when we think that we are all grown and can 'fly' on our own and we don't need them to a certain level.
But as we grow older, we came to a realisation that our friends don't stay forever. They fades away just like 'Mr Time' did.
Give it a deep thought. Who is now still in your life? Who truly is there when you are in deep deep trouble, scared, sad and disappointed.
No one else than family!
But if you are lucky, you will find a friend that will stick with you through everything and anything in which that is really rare and not everyone is blessed with that.
I don't care if you have lots of social media following. Even it is by the million. I don't care! None of them will be there for you when you are truly in need. People only care for you when you have some fun to throw at them. Other than that, they'll just watch you from far with side eyes.
Friends comes and goes.
They evaporated when we graduated.
They evaporated when we changed our job.
They evaporated when everyone are married and have children.
Everyone value us on our worth. When I say worth it's not really about your moral values but about your net worth. Of course no one will want to be friends with you or wanting to marry you if you are a bad person but what i'm trying to point out is, if you don't worth nothing, they will not want you around them. They'll create colorful reasons for you to leave them alone.
I'm sure everyone have experienced this in different capacity and circumstances. It is really heart warming if people accept us as we are and not what we are worth. But that's one in a million.
Even in marriage, your partner will look into your contribution in it. Especially financial contribution. If you are weak in that area, your partner will 'kick' you out of their life.
Almost everyone come and go in our life. There's no guarantee that they'll be there forever till end of time.
But our parents will!
No matter how bad we treated them.
If they see us cry, they cry.
If anyone out there do us wrong, they'll be the first one to feel the pain and be on defence for you.
They will not think the consequences that'll impact them or if they are able to go through it well. All they have in mind is, my child is hurting now, I need to do something about it. They'll find every means and ways to make it all better for us.
Even if it takes them to be walking down the silent street in the middle of the night to help us, that's what they'll do without thinking of their own safety.
Talking about unlimited and unconditional love. Parents have it all. There's no one that's like them in this world. Irreplaceable!
Everyone evaporates but they are there to stay till end of time.
There's expiry date to every friendships or relationships.
Parents love don't live in the space of time.
It's timeless!
Nevertheless, I wish may we find true unlimited, unconditional, selfless love beyond the bonding of our parents and may it last till end of time.
Giving out love to the universe may it manifest into many wonderful everlasting bond.