What does it takes to be in that zone?
Bravery.
One need to have a brave heart to be in it.
Brave enough to embrace happiness that comes in a package of....
Heartache.....
Tears.....
Passion.....
Letting Go.....
Acceptance.....
Loving without expectations......
Adapt with any flaws your partner might have.....
And many more element that's there in the 'Love Zone' ready for anyone who is ready to open their heart and willing to be adaptable to be in it.
'Love Zone' is a place where you will feel awesome when you first step into it. You will feel like you are floating on cloud 9. But the real emotions will emerge slowly but surely depending how long you stay in it.
This zone is only for the brave heart.
Someone who's brave enough to cry.....
Someone who's brave enough to forgive times and again.....
Someone who's brave enough to get right back up when fall flat at times.....
So you see, this awesome zone that we call Love is not for everyone.
People who's with low tolerance of 'games' and nonsense wouldn't want to 'waste time' to be in it.
Not that i'm trying to say here that falling in love is such a waste of time. But seeking for the person who's worth all of you is such a time consuming'.
In this era that we are living now, infidelity is so easy. It's within your finger tips. As for people who's living in 'red dot' (Singapore), everywhere we wanna go is within minutes. So, if anything, it's easy access all around. Not difficult to make up all sorts of stories just to 'fill in the blank' when their partner question them.
Yes we should be thinking positive towards others. But please let's not forget to spare a space of negativity in our mind and heart to neutralize us being human.
We are living in the real world not 'Zen Zone'. There's always the positive and negative to every single thing in this world.
Jealousy = Love
But don't get carried away with unnecessary situation. Don't get over board about it.
It's nice once in a while our partner gets jealous or worried of our whereabout. It shows that he/she still have our interest at heart.
So people be very glad if your partner is being 'jealous' of you once in a while.
Be very worried if your partner don't question you at all. The possibilities might be heartbreaking.
Most people who didn't ask or worry about u they might not care about u. You are just there to make them feel 'normal' in society eyes.
Or
They have some hidden activities that they wouldn't want you to know. So, if they question your activity or whereabout, you should never question them either.
Too many unseen booby traps in 'Love Zone'.
But then, if you want some, you'll lose some.
If you get lucky, you'll never have to go through the turmoil of heartache ever in a relationship.
May you find what you seek. May true love bestow itself upon you and make you the happiest person alive.