Sometimes life sails through so smoothly that we feel like it's our birthday every single day. We get lucky every step of the way.
But at times we fall flat on our face no matter the amount of effort that we have put in. We keep failing and missed the target.
No matter what happened, life still goes on.
A million times failed and being rejected, keep going and keep pushing ourselves. Along the way, many will 'persuade' us to change our course of plan for our own 'good' so that we don't get disappointed anymore. But then will we want to give up and just take the easy way out and be normal like other people?
What exactly is being normal anyway?
How do we shine and be the best version of us if we keep listening to the 'voices' in our head and voices of others trying to persuade us to back down from our main target?
How bad do we want things to accomplish for us?
In this world there's many different types of people that'll be surrounding us. Be it those people just a passing by stranger that only will be in our life for a moment or those that have stayed for a long while. Some of those people are disguised as 'goodness' in disguised. Their words may sound 'normal' and 'logic' in the context of 'society fit in' but is it aligned with what our heart wants really?
There's no exact one straight way in life. Everyone have different path to walk on. We can be walking side by side if our soul magnet alignment is on the same wave. Other than that, no one will understand what we are going through.
Sometimes we questioned ourselves if we have to move forward to be with someone and built a new life just because the life that we have lived and our current life really is not something to be proud of.
But looking into this, if we really move towards being with someone that in our judgement at that very moment will make our life a heaven-on-earth, will that someone understands us with utmost sincerity, compassion and love towards us?
Again in this situation, it is not for everyone. Some people does those things for us just for a moment and then when we get back to our old ways, they will leave because they couldn't handle the 'real' us.
Changes is something that's really hard to do. Especially changes towards goodness and awesomeness of life. Living life well with honesty, love, compassion and mercy. It is really not for everyone who don't really wants to live life like that. For whatever reasons there is.
In all honesty, no matter how nice a person is, there sure is flaws in that person.
You know why?
Because human are not meant to be perfect. Never was, never will.
Just sit back and relax. Take one step at a time even everyone in our life have taken 10 steps ahead of us.
Always remember, we have different path to walk on. Is others path greener and full of rainbows? Maybe. But our path is where exactly we are meant to be and walk on. Go through it with a smile.
Ultimately, be very grateful that we still have path to walk on even if it is patchy for now. Life will get better. For some people, their path have already ended.
You are exactly where you are meant to be.
Your imperfections is absolutely perfect for you to go through your life.
Cry if you must.
But pick up yourself, wipe those tears.
Forgive everyone who hurt you and especially yourself for failing.
Let go of the burden that's filling up your heart.
Those emotions are not you. It's just a passing cloud.
Continue walking with a heart full of gratitude for what it is.
No one will do those things for you. Only you can do it for you. Others will only look at you in pity from far and probably some will laugh and clap their hands out of satisfaction for your misery.
Never depend on others for your happiness and well being.
You are with you 24/7. Every single ticking second of the day. You know you best and your instinct, heart and mind will tell you what exactly you really needed to equip yourself with what's coming next.
Your heart knows what your mind know not of.