"Vile women are for vile men, and vile men for vile women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women; such are innocent of that which people say: For them is pardon and a bountiful provision".
[Al-Noor 18:26]
God is Great and the all knowing and all seeing. There's nothing that passes by without His blessings. Every events that happens on earth, there's always blessings in disguise.
If our heart is still sleeping we will not be able to see the 'WHY it happens to me'. We will keep on blaming God, blaming other people and creating reasons why those events happened to us without even having a speck of realisation within that we actually attract those things to happened without we realise it.
Blaming is the game that we play sometimes.
No gratefulness.
No regrets.
No self reflections.
How we want our partner to be is depending on us. We are a magnet to things and people. We attract. We are a walking, living and breathing magnet.
There's no such things as coincidence.
Everything happens in perfect time.
It happens either to guide us or we guide others to a better space.
Allah is always just in everything.
Playing blame game on Allah is very dangerous.
Such a grave mistake.
Have you ever wonder why you keep on bumping into the same type of people with the same type of situation, taking the same type of decision ending with the same outcome?
Yeah, that's because you are still bumping around on earth with eyes wide shut. Dim heart, sleeping mind.
Allah will never show us or put on our path anything that we are not ready for. Everything that we experienced is because we are ready for it and we can go through it well. Just a matter of time to overcome it.
If the situation is not life threatening, don't worry about it. Living in the moment will help you to find the way to solve it not looking for who to blame for the chaos. It's good to find the root cause and then move on.
May we all find what we seek.
InsyAllah
Amin