I'm sure some people will say that some people are conceived out of rage. My heart goes out to those girls that are being raped and being forced into sexual acts that is against their will.
But nevertheless, we are all born out of love and we are born with love. Hate is something that is being thought along the way of growth.
Everyone wants to love and being love by someone.
Everyone deserves a spot in the very deep of someone's heart.
Love is the best emotions that a person could ever feel. The spark that illuminate love out of us makes us feels that we can go through anything and we feel like being nice to everyone that comes our way.
That's how powerful love is.
But when one is being hurt due to love, it will be devastating. Some people could handle it well. For some other , death is the only way to end their misery.
Love zone is where everyone wants to be in it. But it's not a safe zone, far less then a perfect zone to be in. There's no such thing as happily ever after and never having any hiccups in between it.
Many mistaken that Love Zone is all rainbows and everything nice. But there's so much booby-traps everywhere.
So easily misunderstood.
So easily slipped when time is not given to spend together.
So easily raged when someone gets mad at some little things.
So easily broken when things don't work out exactly the way they have visualised in their mind.
We tend to blame people for our unhappiness and start to lay down each and every mistakes that our partners have done.
Everyone is so busy using the word 'for you'.
I've converted FOR YOU.
I've done the laundry FOR YOU.
I've cooked FOR YOU.
I've make arrangements to celebrate our anniversary FOR YOU.
The list go on and on and on. It never ends.
That's what usually happens to most couples when they are mad at each other. The word FOR YOU is so overly used as if their happiness is depending on their partner and they can't be happy independently.
Why can't we just talk about the current issues instead of bringing back 10 million years history to present?
No one is responsible for anyone's emotions. Only petty people will see it that way. Let's not be one of the petty people that's walking this earth.
When we get mad, our heart is closed. We talk from our mind. That's why some people says that they didn't mean it. It was just in a moment of anger. And they apologised.
It's best not to stay in the situation when we are at the peak of anger. I'm afraid that we will say something that we will regret it when the moment is over and we can't undo it no matter how much we tried.
When we are in love or at least not in rage, we talked from our heart. People can hear our heart. But when we are mad, our heart is blocked and people can't hear it.
Let your heart be heard. Being calm and collected is always the way to go and yes I do understand we can't always be that. We will snap from time to time.
Imagine if a judge is in rage, nothing can be solve. Or even if they've solved it, it will be dealt without justice. No on wants that.
Focus on what is and solve one thing at a time. Open your heart and mind to listen to others. Allow others to listen to your heart.
Talking from mind will never melt a heart. But talking from heart to heart will ignite an unimaginable pleasant outcome.
As how we learn the bad things that there is in life, let's learn to talk from the heart.
Make the impossible possible.
Forgiveness and one of the very many act of love.